During the Depression Era it was common for hoboes to travel across the country by riding the rails and stowing away on railcars. They would wander from town to town, careful not to overstay their welcome and attract the unwanted attention of law enforcement types. When passing through strange towns they would both look for hobo symbols and leave them for other transients to find. The signs consisted of crude drawings that signified such things as where one could work for a meal, a house where the man had a gun, and whether police in the town were friendly or hostile to hoboes. They could be found written in chalk or charcoal on the sides of buildings, on utility poles, or on fenceposts.
One of the hobo symbols consisted of a simply drawn smiling cat figure. This sign would often be found on a fencepost or on the side of a house. It indicated that a kind hearted woman lived in the home. It was a signal to road-weary travelers that they could approach the house to receive decent treatment in the form of a meal, a piece of clothing, or a few coins. They could be sure that a compassionate and charitable woman would be there to offer a bit of kindness in a cold, harsh world.
We are all known by different titles. Some of these are earned upon obtaining a college degree or completing training (i.e. doctor, lawyer, or firefighter). Many of them are bestowed once certain life milestones have been reached (such as husband, mother, widower, etc.). Others are given to us as a result of our actions and the way in which others perceive us.
When I think about what I would like my title to be, the answer comes right away. I want to be known as a kind hearted woman. I would love for people to describe me as having a benevolent, generous spirit. It is how I hope to live the days I am graced with. I work on it daily, and I would like to think that more often than not I succeed. With continued effort and a million kind acts on my horizon I do believe I will some day be remembered this way. It is the legacy I would like to create.
I am blessed to have kind hearted women in my life. (There are plenty of kind hearted men, too. I have no intention of excluding them.) I work hard to emulate their behavior. I learn from their gentle, genuine souls. My mom is the first through-and-through kind hearted woman to guide me in how to treat others. In fact, when I learned of the hobo symbol and its story I bought her a sterling silver pin with this smiling cat engraved on it. I have a sweet friend who has taught me that true kindness extends to those times when there are no witnesses to your words and actions. There is a circle of friends who show their grace and giving nature through the simple deeds they complete daily. To me, the hobo symbol for the kind hearted woman is synonymous with these wonderful women. I know that had they lived during the Depression Era their fenceposts would have doubtless been decorated with this cheerful and inviting sign. I am certain that their imaginary fenceposts today bear the symbol. I hope that mine does, too.
Very interesting article. I like it.
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It is kind of cool to look up the old symbols to see the different meanings. Thanks for reading! Karen 🙂
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What a lovely post, and what a wonderful way to want to be remembered. One i am sure you will doubtless achieve.
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Thank you, I hope you are right! 🙂
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That is so interesting!
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It was fun finding out what different symbols stood for and how they communicated. Thanks for visiting! 🙂
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Karen, this is beautiful. I never knew of the hoboes symbol. What an amazing form of communication to imply a warning, or in the smiling cat drawing, an offer of kindness.
You do have that cheerful and kind spirit Karen. I noticed it right from the “get go”, after discovering your blog. Thank you Karen. 🙂
~Carl~
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Pretty cool, isn’t it? I guess the modern day equivalent would be emojis…
Thank you for your kind soul as well! Kind hearted men are always welcome! 🙂
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I only know you from your blog and your kind comments on mine, but you certainly appear to be a kind-hearted woman to me! Funny, my mother used to tell me about this practice. Her mom would tell them not to draw in chalk b/c the hobos would consider it an invitation–and they barely had enough to feed themselves.
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I love that you have a personal story that relates to this!
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Oh what interesting information! I never knew much about the hobo culture….
And you would definitely be the kind-hearted lady who’d have a cat drawn outside her home! I can just tell from your blog and your writings what a warm and caring person you are!:)
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Thank you, Lia, that means the world to me! Enjoy your weekend!
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I wonderful aspiration.
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Thank you! I am working on it! 🙂
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Now this is really interesting….a bit of education, a bit of learning about you, and a goal for the rest of us as well! Well done!
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Wow, I will consider this one an achievement, thank you!
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What a lovely post. Your kind hearted nature comes across in your writing! I also learnt something about hoboes that I never knew before 🙂
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It’s interesting to see the old symbols and what they stood for. In light of your current circumstances, I wonder if the hoboes had a symbol for “too much snow”!
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Lovely , thanks for sharing.
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Thank you for reading! 🙂
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Wow, such a cool idea, I wonder if any of these symbols still survive? I would love to see them, or their successors, brought to the urban landscape that so many of us seem to live in (sigh)
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It’s an interesting thought. I suppose if they were carved into posts they may still exist. I love history, and I would love to see if they survived, too. I may need to research that… 🙂
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Love this, Karen. Yes “kind-hearted woman” is a wonderful moniker. A kind-hearted woman gives a soft place to fall for those who need help.
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That is a lovely description, and something to be proud of being. 🙂
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What a great story, Karen. I had no idea of the symbols and writings. You, no doubt, are a ‘Kind hearted woman’. This is a lovely reminder of compassion and kindness.
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Thank you! It has been nice to see many posts about this subject due to the 1,000 Voices event. 🙂
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Awesome post! What a desire! I admire that and resonate so much with it. I would love to be known as a kind hearted man. I know quite a couple of people who don’t give a damn what people think about them as long as they get what they want.
I takes a kind hearted person to appreciate the virtue of being kind hearted and to desire it.
I love your post. I found your link on the community pool.
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Thank you for visiting and for sharing your wonderful comment! I have been over to have a read at your blog, and I am following you as well. I look forward to reading more! Best, Karen 🙂
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You are always welcome! It was thoughtful of you to have come visiting. I’ll always look forward to having you around the blogosphere.
Many cheers!
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There is a great challenge called Spread the Love and I have tagged you in it! Much <3!
https://sendsunshine.wordpress.com/2015/02/24/spread-the-love-challenge/
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So interesting! Thanks for sharing this!
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Thank you for visiting and reading! 🙂
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Reblogged this on Fill Your Own Glass and commented:
In honor of my blog’s upcoming one year anniversary later this month I thought that I would share some of my most viewed posts from the past year, along with some of my personal favorites. This post about the history of kind hearted women, and the ones who enrich my life, is my seventh most viewed post. Interestingly, it is the post that has gotten the most hits from search engines, with people searching for “kind”, “kindness”, “kind woman symbols”, and variations thereof. I cannot tell you how happy it makes me that people searching for kindness end up at my blog. I hope I am doing my part to spread kindness, and I encourage you to do yours. Thank you all for each and every visit you have made here!
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I teach junior high school, and one of my three rules is ‘be nice’. I talk to the kids about how hard the world is, and how just being kind to one another can make such a difference in someone’s day. Together, we can spread kindness – I’m sure of it.
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That is wonderful to hear! Is you could teach a refresher course to adults that would be great! I do think most of us are good, kind hearted people, but sometimes we are not heard over the noise.
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Good to know what the sign means. Thanks for writing this post. So beautiful!
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It was fun and interesting to research what some of the old hobo symbols stood for. 🙂
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I’m going to follow you since your link to Facebook said you might be resurrecting the blog again – hope you do, as it looked interesting.
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